Love is an energy that flows through us all. It is not a currency or an exchange method. Nor is it negotiating. It must only be received inside and then manifested outwardly. We can choose to be a lake… the lake is a still water: it evaporates and it has no force.
When love flows through us without conditioning it, or stopping it through the negotiations of the mind: „Is it good or bad, is it right or wrong, where does this gesture lead you to?” When we just let it flow through our soul, love becomes like a spring, fresh and regenerating: two springs unite and become a river. They have a bigger force. On the other hand, a lake fills up when it rains and there’s no change.
What would you like to be? A lake or a spring? Only the attitude and the daily actions make the difference. Mental calculations are made out of fear. The love I’m talking about is the love of the heart. I am not referring to the sexual love or physical attraction. Physical attractiveness can lead to sex, but sex made without the energy of love, manifested without a connection to the soul, is a consumer of energy and not a generator of energy and power, even if it produces orgasm or pleasure at the moment.
The love I’m talking about is a given, and we can choose to grow it when we feel it, or let it pass, ignoring it, leaving what we feel, what we intuit, on a second place.
Depends on what we choose. Love is very concrete. Love is what people call God, but it’s very difficult to make it a priority. We’re too busy with our lives, but what an illusion… it’s just a waste of time. Love requires attention to be cultivated, grown, maintained. To cultivate and bring it into our lives we need to put it on the first place. Love, only love brings abundance. Nothing else!
The paradox of mankind is that although all men seek fulfillment and happiness, most seek it outward, being with other people, to take from other people. More serious even: to please other people. They live by proxy: If the other is happy, then they are happy too. People call it altruism … I write this with so much sadness and compassion for them… how illusive !! Who needs these actions? The others they want to make happy or themselves? Just like babies: babies and children need instinctive parents to be good, because only then can they survive!
Only when you are an adult you can learn that you can be safe without having to make others happy. However, you have no chance because it depends ONLY on his perception. What a waste of time, life and energy! It is as absurd as if a flower that would be in a garden would like to borrow the perfume of another flower, to fulfill its flower design, without having to grow, mature and become able to emulate its own perfume. How can we cultivate love?
Letting us manifest love gestures through all the languages of love: sometimes people are fearful or unpromising when it comes to making concrete actions. Then there is a mental condition about how men manifest themselves, or how women manifest themselves.
Only the pride is the ruler. The ego has genres; male and female. Genuine, pure, unconditional love doesn’t make such calculations, nor does it make a balance sheet: how much they give and how much they receive.
Sometimes, women consider themselves precious and get their toys, whether is a material one, verbal or sexual, through a partner kneeling at her ego. Men aren’t better at the generosity chapter, that actually means maturity: they mistakenly believe that being a man does not mean sending hearts, making some kind of sweetness and love, love for a woman… because this is a feminine.
But that’s the idea! How can a Japanese understand you, if you speak to him in an African dialect? To be heard and understood we need to descend from the pedestal of the male ego to the pink world of femininity and feed the feminine souls with what they need. How difficult is it? As hard as giving up all beliefs about the infatuation and arrogance specific to the Ego.
Men sometimes prefer to fight women and dominate them. Women unfortunately choose to kneel and punish them by taking their power. Where is the love in this fight?
Love’s intelligence will teach us in time that we can’t transform a stone into a growing seed. In time, we will choose a fertile earth to grow our soul’s garden, and we can become springs, so that we can meet another spring and become a river flowing to the great ocean. Each one has its own flowering, growth, flowing rhythm.
Choose with maturity, manifest love with wisdom, gentleness and generosity. Just manifesting, you can bring it to your life! That is why Mother Teresa prayed like this: „Lord, help give me the power to love, more than I am loved!”
Intelligent shareholder at the Universal Bank of Love, Mother Teresa knew clearly how to make a profit. She still receives love beyond this world.
How much profit do you make here and now?
